Mother's Day and Missing In Action

First off, a few words since my final posting shortly before 8:00 PM on my Pieter's 94th Birthday.

By 10:15 PM while brushing my teeth, I got the most excruciating pain in my left chest, mainly from the back area and also front.

Barely could breath.

Pieter got up and brought me to the local ER.

They did a Nuclear Stress Test on Monday around 11:00 AM and 24 hrs later got the results as being negative and no blockages.

Got discharged on Tuesday afternoon.

Called 911 at 6:00 AM on Thursday and by ambulance (same lady that took me to ER on February 21) to the local hospital.

Got a very active and alert doctor and after a CT Scan of the Spine area he ordered the Air Evac Lifeteam to transfer me to Savannah Memorial University Hosptial.

We got 3 x start problems warning — so off I came from this helicopter and another, bigger one got ordered in.

Enough time for having a CT Scan with contrast done to get more insight in the tear in my Aorta (in the back as it crosses from the chest into back and then down to legs to supply them with blood.

But it took me till Friday afternoon to press for the results of this final CT Scan—it did not transfer to Savannah.

But finally they had insight and the Vascular surgeon decided on Saturday afternoon to do a Stent Graft in my Aorta through my groin area both sides.

Surgery went well and I have been for 6 nights in ICU and then got sent to another room.

My Pieter came with a driver on Friday,  still being in lots of pain and in the unknown...

A 3–hour drive one–way. 

Rough on all of us and I felt constantly so exhausted.

Yesterday my Big Sis did come to pick me up!

Such LOVE is a good life elixer and makes you feel ready to fight.

My first quiet night home in a comfy bed was pure bliss.

Had to take my pain meds, strong ones... but they've helped me.

Typing this after breakfast on my lap—quite an accomplishment!

Sorry for no visiting nor commenting or replying....

Need to REST

Thanks for your LOVE and PRAYERS!

 Mama Thelma, the biological Mother of our adopted daughter Liz was a most pleasant lady.

Since we found her after Pieter's lecture at the 12th NAMC in Vancouver.

Just one of her special cards

From Vancouver

One of her special writings

2002 May 14

Hi Mariet Pieter & Spooky

I want to thank you for those two wonderful home video tapes of your beautiful home and the gardens. I watched it twice... Once by myself, and once with my kid sister (youngest) Ginny, we both enjoyed it, so much.

You have quite a spread.

I watch the before and after tapes! And you have done a fantastic job on your land.

It's just marvelous, beyond words, what else can I say...

Your house inside is gorgeous I might say, you do have a lot of precious, costly things...

Did you buy them at different places that you have worked at, and on holidays?

It's just spectacular the whole house.

It's always nice to have good friends like yours too...

It always helps when you're feeling down and out, (Don't you think so).

My son James and I are going to the Inland for the long holiday to visit my oldest sister Dorothy, maybe spend a couple of days with her. Get away from Vancouver for a while. Besides there is nothing really exciting going on around this old town.

Today, you won't believe it, the sun has come out to smile at us, but it's too cold to run around in shorts... usually every other day it rains and rains.

Well, my dears I really don't have any exciting news for you, except that my health has improved a little and that makes me happy, and now I'll have to close with all my regards and love, hugs and kisses to all including your beautiful Spooky.

May God bless you all.

With love,

Mama Thelma

Mama Thelma wrote the above, the day following Mother's Day.

Previous years I even got Mother's Day cards from her—meaning a lot to both of us!

She thanked us for taking care of her daughter and for giving her a Royal Academy education.

Yes, we both lived quite frugal in order to manage that, but feeling proud for having done so.

Loyalty has a deep meaning for both of us.

An entire box, filled with letters and cards from Mama Thelma, we passed on to Liz and therefore I no longer have them... only this one I had left.

Did not have a scanner yet, at the time we passed those letters on to Liz...

Related links:

{Our Daughter Liz} | previous post by me

Vancouver British Columbia, Canada in 1996 and back again in 2018 | previous post by me with Mama Thelma

Some thoughts about training and farm management on a mushroom farm by Pieter J.C. Vedder | Pieter's lecture at the 12th NAMC Conference

{Foster Daughter Anita on the Other Side of the World} | previous post by me