Here I would love to share with you our travels and adventures as international mushroom consultants. MEMOIRS about husband Pieter Vedder, who was a SCIENTIFIC PIONEER in Commercial Mushroom Cultivation Education. His practical handbook is in 9 languages and is called the MUSHROOM BIBLE: https://mariettesbacktobasics.blogspot.com/2020/08/modern-mushroom-growing-2020-harvesting.html
On exactly the day that WWII started in The Netherlands—May 10 of 1945—we held a meaningful Memorial Service for my Pieter.
Most has been chosen by Pieter himself and got listed in his Last Will as such.
Shortly before the service started...
Fresh white fragrant stock got delivered as they were Pieter's favorite flower.
He told me of growing them with his Dad in the greenhouse for use at the annual Sacraments Procession.
I've used the fine silk batik tablecloths, gift from Indonesia in 2004.
Center cloth covers the cremated remains.
Turned out they fit perfectly with the chairs in the loft and with the carpet.
Indonesia meant so much for both of us so this was Perfect!
Left photo shows brother Toon, me and Pieter in Saint Augustine, Florida.
Toon's daughter Myriam was here with me and helping me set up everything...
Myriam was Pieter's only Goddaughter!
Christy's from East Dublin did such an excellent job in arranging these white stock or Matthiola incana inside a white vase.
Pieter J.C. Vedder
April 29, 1929 – April 30, 2024
Don't forget to turn on CC = Closed Captions!
Pieter's Requiem Choice
Pieter had requested in his Last Will specific music to be played at his Memorial Service.
That also included a request of participation from my former chancel choir music director, Michael Dwain Little and our former Pastor Keith Goodlett.
Catering a full luncheon would be done by Roy Grenade.
The usual technician handling the two big video cameras and the sound board with different microphones to be turned on during Michael Dwain Little's organ play and chanting... was not present during the Memorial Service.
We can never go back and do it over again and it sure was painful! We had it so well planned, set up and worked out.
Oh, the book for registering names was not at the entrance of the Church but on a side table in the fellowship hall where the lunch was served.
She never used the cameras the way she was supposed to do. Only showing the front pews on the right side of the Church...
But after cutting out the spots without image or sound, I got this.
Dear long–time friend of both of us, Gil Gillis, who used to run the local TV station agreed to use the photos that I'd prepared for showing.
That too was NOT done, only a few during the luncheon.
Pieter's favorite piece of music Adagio (Albinoni) that strikes a chord...
Also, Mozart's Lacrimosa (Tearful) was one of Pieter's favorites and he himself sang often DIES IRAE A Capella with some other boys from the impressive 100–member choir in Groessen, The Netherlands.
It just is SAD, that some insignificant people abused their power for denying my very humble, but larger than life Pieter, his final wishes.
Knowing that from Heaven, Pieter still is pleased with Keith Goodlett and Michael Dwain Little's efforts to adhere to his Last Will.
Kathy Jones as soprano, as requested by Pieter.
Also dear friend Mary Louise Goodie McRae added to that in a touching way.
Mozart's Lacrimosa (Tearful) was not audible...
It has such a depth of human emotions and thus transcends all languages and cultures!
See link below post.
I Believe, Mark A Miller
I believe in the sun, I believe in the sun, even when, even when it's not shining.
I believe in love, even when, even when I don't feel it.
I believe in God, I believe in God, even when, even when God is silent.
Indeed, the final Musical Moment – Hungarian Dance #4, Johannes Brams very much reflected the way we both lived...
Music is the shorthand of emotion~Leo Tolstoy quote
Thank you
Words cannot express how grateful our family is for your generous support, encouraging words, and thoughts and prayers. Your kindness will always be remembered with deep gratitude.
The Family of
Pieter J.C. Vedder
If you would like to provide a memorial donation,
checks can be made out to Mariette Vedder for
the Leprosy Project in Indonesia which was near to his heart.
Alabo el gusto de Pieter. El Adagio de Albinoni es una pieza de música de mo predolección.Mientras sea recordado, él permanecerá vivo, en nuestros pensamientos. Un abrazo.
Querida Antónia, Muy contenta con mi versión limpia y la música incorporada con las fotos. Sí, Pieter será recordado en todo el mundo y siempre estará a mi lado. Abrazos, Mariette
It looks like a very nice Memorial Service, Mariette. I enjoyed the video seeing him when he was younger and the events he went to through the years. He will always be with you in your heart. I hope you continue to gain more weight, which seems to be more healthy to me. The table with the photos is lovely. May you be comforted during this time of sorrow.
Dearest Sheri, Thank you and yes, his photos in age sequence are very special. There were no earlier pictures due to the Depression Years. Happy with this help from a dear friend—meaning so much to me and to others. Sure, I try to do the utmost to gain weight!!! But I got so sleep deprived for weeks, that didn't work out well. Hugs, Mariette
The flowers and photos were especially lovely, Mariette. I'm sorry things didn't go as planned, but the most important thing was and is the love you both shared, and the gifts he (and you both) brought to the world. ❤️
Dearest Kim, Thank you and yes, those photos not being shown was a terrible neglect! But I've got it now recovered and you are right about our love and no doubt Pieter left a trace in this world. That's what his Dad always said: make sure you leave a trace. Hugs, Mariette
Dearest Sandee, The memories in general are the most precious one can imagine. It was just disappointing for encountering such shortcomings... for my Pieter—who deserved far better! Hugs, Mariette
I can only imagine your frustration over the failings. But his words alone moved me to tears. And this remains a celebration of life I will not soon forget. What a special human being with a very wonderful legacy and fantastic wife. Hugs and blessings, my dear.
That really was a beautiful memorial service and quite the special video too. I feel like I actually knew your Pieter after watching it. Many hugs and lots of love to you.
Dearest Terry, Thank you and this indeed is a wonderful service for celebrating such a special life. Pieter was very easy to get to know and to love! Hugs, Mariette
I'm sorry things were not done the way Pieter and you wanted them to be, Mariette. That is so disappointing. Still, though, it was such a lovely memorial to Pieter, and we felt privileged to watch it and to learn about this life and legacy. Love and hugs to you.
Dearest Kevin, It sure was disappointing but irreversible. Pieter knew that we tried hard to do it right and this is the best I could present. Thanks for watching and yes, he left quite a legacy... Hugs, Mariette
Oh liebe Mariette - das tut mir unendich leid - ich drücke dich aus der Ferne und spreche dir mein aufrichtiges Beileid aus - Ihr wart ein so wundervolles Paar - er wird dir immer im Herzen bleiben -
You had a very moving and loving ceremony for your husband. I'm sure he was smiling down on you every moment. You will be so glad to see him in the future.
Dearest Lynn and Precious, Thank you and indeed I could picture Pieter smiling down from heaven... He so deserved it to be praised and remembered for what he was. Hugs, Mariette
I am glad to be here "with you" this morning, and to have read this loving tribute to your dear husband. I wish I had been there for the memorial service; however I will listen and see it now and be there in spirit and heart. Much love to you.
Your post is a beautiful tribute to Pieter. Despite the technical issues, the love and care you put into his memorial service are clear. The white stock flowers and meaningful music choices were touching. Wishing you peace and comfort as you cherish your memories together.
Dearest Veronica, Thank you and yes, a lot of love and care got put into this memorial service by those that loved him. For Pieter those white stock were very meaningful and his favorite flower. Thanks for your love, Mariette
Mooie dienst Mariette. Moge alle mooie herinneringen aan Pieter je verdriet verzachten en je kracht geven. (Ik schrik een beetje van je gewicht, denk om jezelf). Lieve groet Willy
Beste Willy, Mooie herinneringen heb ik gelukkig in overvloed. Mijn gewicht was 40 kg op 10 oktober dus dit is al heel wat meer. Door constante pijn val je ook af... Pieter verzorgde mij en nu is hij er niet meer. Liefs, Mariette
Dearest Duta, Thank you and Pieter so loved that and chose to have it for his Memorial. The traditional Jewish poem I Believe by Mark Miller is also quite touching... And so is of course Mozart's Lacrimosa. Hugs, Mariette
I understand the depth of your pain as you went through Pieter's memorial service. I hope you took some comfort from all those around you. All of the preparation for the service was impeccable, which Pieter certainly deserved. I believe that the love never dies, and that there is a consciousness that prevails in perpetuity. May you feel his love every day in one way or another.
Dearest Wendy, Yes, it was not meant to happen that way and for sure not for my Pieter—he deserved far better! All the kind people present—even when not shown on camera... certainly gave me lots of comfort! There was a lot of tangible love and that has carried me through these times. Our love for each other never dies as the souls are fused together for eternity. Hugs, Mariette
I am sorry that some things didn't go as planned, but it was still a lovely Memorial service for Pieter. He will have been watching over you to give you support.
Dearest Jackie, With the photos now added to the music, it is looking more complete, the way we had it planned. No doubt he has been watching over me and does so every day. Hugs, Mariette
It so helps the grieving who are left behind when a loved one dies, to have the directives for a memorial left so as to help plan the service. I'm sure if Pieter could look down from heaven, he would have smiled. May God continue to wrap you in His comfort and peace, Mariette.
Dearest Martha Jane, It sure helps a lot and we all ought to be prepared as best as we can! Pieter no doubt was smiling down—that was palpable... Hugs, Mariette
A beautiful tribute to a gentleman who touched the hearts of so many people. I myself was moved and I hope that your Pieter will accompany you from heaven and always protect you, dear Mariette. xoxo
Janey here from Thin Air. I haven't checked back in a long time and I am so sad that you have lost your wonderful husband. You are in my thoughts. So many memories you two made together, may those help you through this time difficult time...
Dearest Janey, Thank you for your visit and for your words here. Guess there are not many with memories like we both shared! Those sure do sustain me through this difficult time and I'm just so grateful for the best husband one could wish for. Hugs, Mariette
Mariette this was so very very lovely and I thank you for share this special tribute with us. I'm happy to read that you are gaining your lost weight... Many hugs and prayers as your mind heals and your heart adjust to the great loss Cecilia
Dearest Cecilia, Thank you for your words and about the weight, that is just what I'd lost over the past months. My real gain is yet to come—hopefully! Need 15 more pounds to be like I was before accident. Hugs, Mariette
Mariette, what a lovely service you held for your dear Pieter. Although not everything went as planned, you honored your beloved well. May God comfort you with his presence.
Querida Mariette, quanta emoção você nos passa com essa postagem, com a música maravilhosa e imagens lindas da vida do seu Pieter! Meu carinho e meu abraço, querida, quanto amor e carinho nessa postagem! Fique com Deus, e seus dias sejam abençoados! 🌹🙏🌹
Cara Taís, Claro que há muita emoção neste post... Uma vida inteira de amor verdadeiro e agora só a memória. Mas a alma de Pieter permanece ligada à minha alma e com a força de Deus eu administro minha dor física sem meu cuidador amoroso... Abraços, Mariette
Ik heb de bloemen even opgezocht, dat zijn net kleine roosjes, wat mooi. Ook heb ik de liederen, muziek geluisterd. De woorden van Mark A Miller: "Ik geloof" spreken mij heel erg aan. Een hele mooie herdenkingsdienst.
Pieter was een bijzondere man en jij een bijzondere vrouw.
Veel licht en liefde in deze moeilijke tijd. Liefs, Hilly
Beste Hilly, Ja, die Violieren zijn heel bijzonder en geuren als parfum! De woorden van Mark A. Miller komen van een Joods gedicht, hij heeft de muziek gecomponeerd. Maar die ráken je heel erg! Dank je voor je woorden en zo zal Pieter zeker trots geweest zijn op de uitvoering van zijn herdenkingsdienst—hij was inderdaad heel bijzonder! Liefs, Mariette
this was an amazing service for Pieter, Mariette, and I know he looked down and smiled; and he will continue to walk by your side ♥♥ I bet he has one hellava motorcycle that he uses to get from one end of heaven to another !! :) maybe even one with a side car !!! ♥♥
Dearest Laura, Thank you so much for your visit and your words here. Daily I can feel Pieter watching over me and protecting me—I'm never alone. Who knows he might be riding again a motorcycle—a fancy one that he loves?! Hugs, Mariette
Dear Mariette, Even though things did not go exactly as planned, I am sure Pieter was watching from above and knows you did your very best to honour his wishes - and it sounds as though it was, in spite of the minor hitches, a beautiful memorial service. Hugs.
Dearest J–Cats, Pieter no doubt knew I did my very best and the rest was not in my hands... It sure was a beautiful memorial service, even without the photos being shown. Thanks for your words! Hugs, Mariette
Mariette, thank you for letting me know the name of the yellow Banksia Rose. The bush was very large, and it so pretty that I had to take a picture of it. I think that's why I appreciate the roses so much - they are sturdy and can withstand severed climates. My mini roses are just sprouting up this Spring after a cold winter with snow.
Dearest Sheri, You are quite welcome! Guess we still have one Banksia rose left. Did walk around our entire Estate for the 2nd time, once with Pieter a couple of months ago and now with my niece. Felt proud for having done so but of course we did not study each shrub and tree... We lost most of our fragrant heirloom roses—only the photos and videos remain. Hugs, Mariette
Oh, I am sorry that even though you had put so much planning and effort to make Pieter's service to his wishes and honor. But it still was very moving and a nice way to close this chapter.
Sending tons of hugs to you, I am sure you need them a plenty. May God continue to comfort you and give you peace.
Dearest Ingrid, Well, with those photos being totally forgotten and also the music, now it looks complete. Some people just don't seem to respect somebody's wishes and only love to be in control... Thanks for your hugs and indeed I need them as I'm in terrible physical pain. Hugs, Mariette
I am sorry that you have so much pain, as if grief wasn't' enough. I pray that your pain will be diminished and bearable sooner than later. Pain is so debilitating. Sterkte, hoor! 🥰
Dearest Cecilia, Thank you for explaining that! Americans always have been good at writing abbreviations that most people don't understand... Hugs, Mariette
Dearest Peter, Thank you and it sure was, even without them showing the photos with the music selected. Mentally I'm okay but it is so hard to deal with the excruciating pain from stent–graft area. My caretaker is gone! Hugs, Mariette
Oh what a beautiful time you arranged for Pieter. I'm so sorry for the things that didn't happen the way you had planned. That is just heartbreaking! The music selections are so beautiful, and how wonderful that Pieter had it all planned out for you! I am thankful for the outpouring of love you have received, and continue to hold you up in prayer, and so thankful to hear you have gained some pounds. May the Lord be with you and keep you safe in His care dear friend!
Dearest Marilyn, Thank you and no doubt Pieter was pleased with it as he knows that I did the utmost for getting his Last Will fulfilled. Indeed there has been a worldwide outpouring of love and that sustains me. Did lose again some weight, only 98 pounds due to severe pain in stent–graft area. Thanks for your prayers and I try hard to gain more weight. Hugs, Mariette
Wat een mooie dienst, lieve Mariette. We weten dat er altijd mensen zijn die dwarsbomen, als ik het zo mag zeggen, maar in je hart heb jij Pieter's laatste wens vervuld en ik weet zeker dat hij alleen dat heeft gehoord💞 Ik hoop dat het goed met je gaat, lief mens en wens je nog heel veel sterkte de komende tijd. Wat zullen jij en de poesjes hem missen😿 Sorry ook dat je zoveel lichamelijke pijn hebt. Ik hoop dat het snel beter met je zal gaan, daarom krijg je van ons allemaal Extra Healing Pawkisses to feel better soon🐾😽💞
Lieve Marlene, Dank je en inderdaad zijn er altijd mensen die dwarsbomen. Het is een fijn gevoel te weten dat ik voor Pieter alles naar wens heb gedaan en hij weet dat als geen ander! De lichamelijke pijn is ontzettend fel en het is erg lief om lieve poezen pootkusjes te krijgen. Alle drie hier zijn ook ontzettend lief en aanhankelijk! Liefs, Mariette
My condolences, Mariette. God bless you.
ReplyDeleteDearest Sandi,
DeleteThank you and Pieter remains always close to me—his soul never died!
Hugs,
Mariette
Alabo el gusto de Pieter. El Adagio de Albinoni es una pieza de música de mo predolección.Mientras sea recordado, él permanecerá vivo, en nuestros pensamientos.
ReplyDeleteUn abrazo.
Querida Antónia,
DeleteMuy contenta con mi versión limpia y la música incorporada con las fotos. Sí, Pieter será recordado en todo el mundo y siempre estará a mi lado.
Abrazos,
Mariette
It looks like a very nice Memorial Service, Mariette. I enjoyed the video seeing him when he was younger and the events he went to through the years. He will always be with you in your heart. I hope you continue to gain more weight, which seems to be more healthy to me. The table with the photos is lovely. May you be comforted during this time of sorrow.
ReplyDeleteSending loving thoughts,
~Sheri
Dearest Sheri,
DeleteThank you and yes, his photos in age sequence are very special. There were no earlier pictures due to the Depression Years. Happy with this help from a dear friend—meaning so much to me and to others.
Sure, I try to do the utmost to gain weight!!! But I got so sleep deprived for weeks, that didn't work out well.
Hugs,
Mariette
I liked the video, it sounds like it was a wonderful service for your beloved Pieter
ReplyDeleteDearest Jo-Anne,
DeleteIt sure was a very meaningful service!
Hugs,
Mariette
The flowers and photos were especially lovely, Mariette. I'm sorry things didn't go as planned, but the most important thing was and is the love you both shared, and the gifts he (and you both) brought to the world. ❤️
ReplyDeleteDearest Kim,
DeleteThank you and yes, those photos not being shown was a terrible neglect!
But I've got it now recovered and you are right about our love and no doubt Pieter left a trace in this world. That's what his Dad always said: make sure you leave a trace.
Hugs,
Mariette
Beautiful memorial.
ReplyDeleteBig healing hugs. ♥
Dearest Sandee,
DeleteThe memories in general are the most precious one can imagine.
It was just disappointing for encountering such shortcomings... for my Pieter—who deserved far better!
Hugs,
Mariette
I can only imagine your frustration over the failings. But his words alone moved me to tears. And this remains a celebration of life I will not soon forget. What a special human being with a very wonderful legacy and fantastic wife. Hugs and blessings, my dear.
ReplyDeleteDearest Darla,
DeleteYes, Pieter was indeed a special human being and his legacy will last forever.
Hugs,
Mariette
You and Pieter made an ideal team creating this legacy. Be well, my dear.
DeleteDearest Darla,
DeleteThank you so very much! 💞
That really was a beautiful memorial service and quite the special video too. I feel like I actually knew your Pieter after watching it. Many hugs and lots of love to you.
ReplyDeleteDearest Terry,
DeleteThank you and this indeed is a wonderful service for celebrating such a special life.
Pieter was very easy to get to know and to love!
Hugs,
Mariette
A beautiful service for your beloved husband.
ReplyDeleteDearest Melissa,
DeleteKnowing full well that my Pieter was smiling down from heaven...
Hugs,
Mariette
What a beautiful and heartwarming tribute to your beloved, my friend. What a life you shared!
ReplyDeleteDearest Billie Jo,
DeleteThank you and indeed, we shared a full life and one of true love!
Hugs,
Mariette
I'm sorry things were not done the way Pieter and you wanted them to be, Mariette. That is so disappointing. Still, though, it was such a lovely memorial to Pieter, and we felt privileged to watch it and to learn about this life and legacy. Love and hugs to you.
ReplyDeleteDearest Kevin,
DeleteIt sure was disappointing but irreversible.
Pieter knew that we tried hard to do it right and this is the best I could present.
Thanks for watching and yes, he left quite a legacy...
Hugs,
Mariette
Cara Mariette dopo questo immenso dolore ti auguro di avere cura di te come avrebbe voluto Pieter.Un abbraccio .
ReplyDeleteCara lettore, sì, cerco di prendermi cura di me stesso e di continuare nel modo in cui Pieter si è preso cura di me...
DeleteUn abbraccio,
Mariette
Oh liebe Mariette - das tut mir unendich leid - ich drücke dich aus der Ferne und spreche dir mein aufrichtiges Beileid aus - Ihr wart ein so wundervolles Paar - er wird dir immer im Herzen bleiben -
ReplyDeleteLiebe Leserin,
DeleteDanke und mein Pieter bleibt im Herzen und seine Seele ist sehr nah.
Liebe Grüße,
Mariette
You had a very moving and loving ceremony for your husband. I'm sure he was smiling down on you every moment. You will be so glad to see him in the future.
ReplyDeleteDearest Lynn and Precious,
DeleteThank you and indeed I could picture Pieter smiling down from heaven... He so deserved it to be praised and remembered for what he was.
Hugs,
Mariette
I am glad to be here "with you" this morning, and to have read this loving tribute to your dear husband. I wish I had been there for the memorial service; however I will listen and see it now and be there in spirit and heart. Much love to you.
ReplyDeleteDearest Katie Isabella,
DeleteThank you and yes, being there in spirit works as well!
Hugs,
Mariette
Your post is a beautiful tribute to Pieter.
ReplyDeleteDespite the technical issues, the love and care you put into his memorial service are clear.
The white stock flowers and meaningful music choices were touching.
Wishing you peace and comfort as you cherish your memories together.
Hugs and blessings, dearest Mariette.
Dearest Veronica,
DeleteThank you and yes, a lot of love and care got put into this memorial service by those that loved him.
For Pieter those white stock were very meaningful and his favorite flower.
Thanks for your love,
Mariette
Mooie dienst Mariette. Moge alle mooie herinneringen aan Pieter je verdriet verzachten en je kracht geven. (Ik schrik een beetje van je gewicht, denk om jezelf). Lieve groet Willy
ReplyDeleteBeste Willy,
DeleteMooie herinneringen heb ik gelukkig in overvloed.
Mijn gewicht was 40 kg op 10 oktober dus dit is al heel wat meer.
Door constante pijn val je ook af... Pieter verzorgde mij en nu is hij er niet meer.
Liefs,
Mariette
Condolences and prayers for the comfort of you and family
ReplyDeleteDearest Reader,
DeleteThank you so very much!
Hugs,
Mariette
A touching, wonderful memorial service.
ReplyDeleteDearest Anne,
DeleteThank you!
Hugs,
Mariette
Quite a distinguished memorial service arrangement!
ReplyDeleteAdagio by Albinoni - the very proper music for the event!
Dearest Duta,
DeleteThank you and Pieter so loved that and chose to have it for his Memorial.
The traditional Jewish poem I Believe by Mark Miller is also quite touching...
And so is of course Mozart's Lacrimosa.
Hugs,
Mariette
I understand the depth of your pain as you went through Pieter's memorial service. I hope you took some comfort from all those around you. All of the preparation for the service was impeccable, which Pieter certainly deserved. I believe that the love never dies, and that there is a consciousness that prevails in perpetuity. May you feel his love every day in one way or another.
ReplyDeleteDearest Wendy,
DeleteYes, it was not meant to happen that way and for sure not for my Pieter—he deserved far better!
All the kind people present—even when not shown on camera... certainly gave me lots of comfort! There was a lot of tangible love and that has carried me through these times.
Our love for each other never dies as the souls are fused together for eternity.
Hugs,
Mariette
I am sorry that some things didn't go as planned, but it was still a lovely Memorial service for Pieter. He will have been watching over you to give you support.
ReplyDeleteDearest Jackie,
DeleteWith the photos now added to the music, it is looking more complete, the way we had it planned. No doubt he has been watching over me and does so every day.
Hugs,
Mariette
It so helps the grieving who are left behind when a loved one dies, to have the directives for a memorial left so as to help plan the service. I'm sure if Pieter could look down from heaven, he would have smiled.
ReplyDeleteMay God continue to wrap you in His comfort and peace, Mariette.
Dearest Martha Jane,
DeleteIt sure helps a lot and we all ought to be prepared as best as we can!
Pieter no doubt was smiling down—that was palpable...
Hugs,
Mariette
A beautiful tribute to a gentleman who touched the hearts of so many people. I myself was moved and I hope that your Pieter will accompany you from heaven and always protect you, dear Mariette.
ReplyDeletexoxo
Dearest Cristina,
DeleteThank you and yes, my Pieter is always near me until we meet again 💞
Hugs,
Mariette
Janey here from Thin Air. I haven't checked back in a long time and I am so sad that you have lost your wonderful husband. You are in my thoughts. So many memories you two made together, may those help you through this time difficult time...
ReplyDeleteDearest Janey,
DeleteThank you for your visit and for your words here.
Guess there are not many with memories like we both shared!
Those sure do sustain me through this difficult time and I'm just so grateful for the best husband one could wish for.
Hugs,
Mariette
Mariette this was so very very lovely and I thank you for share this special tribute with us.
ReplyDeleteI'm happy to read that you are gaining your lost weight...
Many hugs and prayers as your mind heals and your heart adjust to the great loss
Cecilia
Dearest Cecilia,
DeleteThank you for your words and about the weight, that is just what I'd lost over the past months. My real gain is yet to come—hopefully! Need 15 more pounds to be like I was before accident.
Hugs,
Mariette
Mariette, what a lovely service you held for your dear Pieter. Although not everything went as planned, you honored your beloved well. May God comfort you with his presence.
ReplyDeleteDearest Lorrie,
DeleteThank you so very much and knowing that Pieter felt loved throughout it is the biggest comfort.
Hugs,
Mariette
Querida Mariette, quanta emoção você nos passa com essa postagem,
ReplyDeletecom a música maravilhosa e imagens lindas da vida do seu Pieter!
Meu carinho e meu abraço, querida, quanto amor e carinho nessa postagem!
Fique com Deus, e seus dias sejam abençoados!
🌹🙏🌹
Cara Taís,
DeleteClaro que há muita emoção neste post... Uma vida inteira de amor verdadeiro e agora só a memória. Mas a alma de Pieter permanece ligada à minha alma e com a força de Deus eu administro minha dor física sem meu cuidador amoroso...
Abraços,
Mariette
Beste Mariette,
ReplyDeleteIk heb de bloemen even opgezocht, dat zijn net kleine roosjes, wat mooi.
Ook heb ik de liederen, muziek geluisterd.
De woorden van Mark A Miller: "Ik geloof" spreken mij heel erg aan.
Een hele mooie herdenkingsdienst.
Pieter was een bijzondere man en jij een bijzondere vrouw.
Veel licht en liefde in deze moeilijke tijd.
Liefs,
Hilly
Beste Hilly,
DeleteJa, die Violieren zijn heel bijzonder en geuren als parfum!
De woorden van Mark A. Miller komen van een Joods gedicht, hij heeft de muziek gecomponeerd. Maar die ráken je heel erg!
Dank je voor je woorden en zo zal Pieter zeker trots geweest zijn op de uitvoering van zijn herdenkingsdienst—hij was inderdaad heel bijzonder!
Liefs,
Mariette
this was an amazing service for Pieter, Mariette, and I know he looked down and smiled;
ReplyDeleteand he will continue to walk by your side ♥♥ I bet he has one hellava motorcycle that he uses to
get from one end of heaven to another !! :) maybe even one with a side car !!! ♥♥
Dearest Laura,
DeleteThank you so much for your visit and your words here.
Daily I can feel Pieter watching over me and protecting me—I'm never alone.
Who knows he might be riding again a motorcycle—a fancy one that he loves?!
Hugs,
Mariette
Please take enough nutrition.
ReplyDeleteI am sure Pieter everytime likes to watch you have meals with a smiling face.
Dearest RTC,
DeleteOh, I eat very well and also have a good appetite!
Yes, Pieter no doubt is watching me and I enjoy my food.
Hugs,
Mariette
Thank you once again, Mariette, for you detailed response to my comedy efforts. I am just so gratified that you enjoy them. Hugs, Wendy
ReplyDeleteDearest Wendy,
DeleteYou are quite welcome and you deserve it as you are oh so talented and also very good with words!
Hugs,
Mariette
Dear Mariette, Even though things did not go exactly as planned, I am sure Pieter was watching from above and knows you did your very best to honour his wishes - and it sounds as though it was, in spite of the minor hitches, a beautiful memorial service. Hugs.
ReplyDeleteDearest J–Cats,
DeletePieter no doubt knew I did my very best and the rest was not in my hands...
It sure was a beautiful memorial service, even without the photos being shown.
Thanks for your words!
Hugs,
Mariette
I'm so sorry for your loss.
ReplyDeleteDearest Danielle,
DeleteThank you and my Pieter will be missed the world over.
Hugs,
Mariette
Mariette, thank you for letting me know the name of the yellow Banksia Rose. The bush was very large, and it so pretty that I had to take a picture of it. I think that's why I appreciate the roses so much - they are sturdy and can withstand severed climates. My mini roses are just sprouting up this Spring after a cold winter with snow.
ReplyDeleteDearest Sheri,
DeleteYou are quite welcome! Guess we still have one Banksia rose left. Did walk around our entire Estate for the 2nd time, once with Pieter a couple of months ago and now with my niece. Felt proud for having done so but of course we did not study each shrub and tree...
We lost most of our fragrant heirloom roses—only the photos and videos remain.
Hugs,
Mariette
Oh, I am sorry that even though you had put so much planning and effort to make Pieter's service to his wishes and honor.
ReplyDeleteBut it still was very moving and a nice way to close this chapter.
Sending tons of hugs to you, I am sure you need them a plenty.
May God continue to comfort you and give you peace.
Dearest Ingrid,
DeleteWell, with those photos being totally forgotten and also the music, now it looks complete. Some people just don't seem to respect somebody's wishes and only love to be in control...
Thanks for your hugs and indeed I need them as I'm in terrible physical pain.
Hugs,
Mariette
I am sorry that you have so much pain, as if grief wasn't' enough. I pray that your pain will be diminished and bearable sooner than later. Pain is so debilitating.
DeleteSterkte, hoor!
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It sure is and I lost two pounds in one week... Thanks for your prayers!
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DeleteMariette...good morning
ReplyDeleteand EMW is early morning walk.
Hugs and purrs to you the furries
Cecilia
Dearest Cecilia,
DeleteThank you for explaining that!
Americans always have been good at writing abbreviations that most people don't understand...
Hugs,
Mariette
Cara Mariette abbi cura di te!Pieter ti è sempre accanto e ti protegge.Saluti dal Friuli.OLga
ReplyDeleteCara Olga, sì, lo so e cerco di prendermi cura di me stessa. Il dolore intorno all'innesto di stent è così feroce...
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Mariette
It looks like a wonderful service! I hope you are coping OK during this difficult time.
ReplyDeleteDearest Peter,
DeleteThank you and it sure was, even without them showing the photos with the music selected.
Mentally I'm okay but it is so hard to deal with the excruciating pain from stent–graft area.
My caretaker is gone!
Hugs,
Mariette
Oh what a beautiful time you arranged for Pieter. I'm so sorry for the things that didn't happen the way you had planned. That is just heartbreaking! The music selections are so beautiful, and how wonderful that Pieter had it all planned out for you! I am thankful for the outpouring of love you have received, and continue to hold you up in prayer, and so thankful to hear you have gained some pounds. May the Lord be with you and keep you safe in His care dear friend!
ReplyDeleteDearest Marilyn,
DeleteThank you and no doubt Pieter was pleased with it as he knows that I did the utmost for getting his Last Will fulfilled.
Indeed there has been a worldwide outpouring of love and that sustains me.
Did lose again some weight, only 98 pounds due to severe pain in stent–graft area.
Thanks for your prayers and I try hard to gain more weight.
Hugs,
Mariette
Wat een mooie dienst, lieve Mariette. We weten dat er altijd mensen zijn die dwarsbomen, als ik het zo mag zeggen, maar in je hart heb jij Pieter's laatste wens vervuld en ik weet zeker dat hij alleen dat heeft gehoord💞 Ik hoop dat het goed met je gaat, lief mens en wens je nog heel veel sterkte de komende tijd. Wat zullen jij en de poesjes hem missen😿 Sorry ook dat je zoveel lichamelijke pijn hebt. Ik hoop dat het snel beter met je zal gaan, daarom krijg je van ons allemaal Extra Healing Pawkisses to feel better soon🐾😽💞
ReplyDeleteLieve Marlene,
DeleteDank je en inderdaad zijn er altijd mensen die dwarsbomen. Het is een fijn gevoel te weten dat ik voor Pieter alles naar wens heb gedaan en hij weet dat als geen ander!
De lichamelijke pijn is ontzettend fel en het is erg lief om lieve poezen pootkusjes te krijgen. Alle drie hier zijn ook ontzettend lief en aanhankelijk!
Liefs,
Mariette